"Each one of us here today will, at one time in our lives look upon a loved one and ask the same question: 'We are willing to help Lord but what, if anything, is needed?' It is true that we can seldom help those closest to us. Either we don't know what part of ourselves to give or, more often than not the part that we have to give is not wanted. And so it is those that we live with and should know who elude us. But we can still love them. We can love completely, without complete understanding." - a sermon from the movie / autobiographical novella A River Runs Through It |