It's odd how hobbies can draw unlikely people together. Right now I've been talking to two different people who have been making cookies tonight and tried to feed me virtual ones over the net. One of them I've met because she traveled over 2k miles to visit me last year to 'hang out'. The other one is a new friend, a guy, who likes to bake snickers bite-sizes into his chocolate chip cookies. Both are equally cool. One is filled with cuddles and hugs and positive encouragement, the other one comes up with really strange character concepts that strike me as fantastic and fitting without being generic or filled with overused themes.
Mizahar has had this effect on people.
We've been open since August, and frankly it was like birthing a child I would imagine.. one that needs attention and constant TLC. But like having a child, it opens doors to new groups of friends. When your single, and you suddenly get married, you start hanging more with other married friends rather than your solo remaining singles. You don't mean to do it, but somehow it becomes a bit easier. Its the same with kids, I think, even though I do not have any. You make play dates and bond over babysitter issues. And so.. i have my real life friends, my work friends, and I have my online friends.
Frankly, I can't imagine my day without saying hi to the online group like I do the real life group. It's not the same unless I chat it up with GP or Mike, even if its just for a few minutes. Getting hugs from Mish, grinning over Terminus' life, or helping some new stranger get introduced to the world of Mizahar. I love popping into chat and tracking the converstation, wondering where its going to turn to next. I really super enjoy meeting new folks too. Everyone is different. Everyone brings something to the table that the rest of us learn and grow from.
This place is amazing because of that. Seriously.
It's the only place I'd dare to invite someone with nine posts to DS for...
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