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I cannot hear your voice. by Kamalia Timandre on January 1st, 2010, 11:51 am
So many people tell me that you have a wonderful character sheet, but who are you anyway? Why can I no longer hear your voice? I want to hear your voice once again.
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Communication by Alistair deGrey on February 13th, 2010, 3:16 am
Consider your point of view, I am sure you do it often enough that it should come naturally. Now, humor me for a second as you hypothetically place yourself in a group of people. Imagine that this group is working on a very important project. You have devised this fantastic, bombastic, scholastic, elastic idea. Even better, everybody concludes "Holy hellfire Mr.Get Thefout, thats an amazing idea!" You sit back with a smug grin on your face, glad that for once your idea made it through the incomprehensible cacophony that is the river of understanding. Hells yeah, I finally made it across. I rock.
A month later, your team mates have come up with a product that makes no sense and has nothing to do with your idea. The idiotic product fails and you lose your job because guess what, it was your idea.
What do we have here? A team of doltfish? As much as I'd like to think so, its more likely that there is a breakdown in communication somewhere. It is so common for us to get the gist of an idea and then jump to a conclusion. Sometimes this is great! Other times it doesn't really work. Its a fast paced world we live in, Mr. Get, the faster we can reach comprehension of a subject the quicker we will accomplish our goals. This leads me to my first topic for this quick rant/do it yourself guide for communication,
1) Slow down hotrod. I am sure you would love to be done with us as soon as possible, but we need to be sure you actually understand what it is we are trying to convey to you. Getting ahead of yourself if an excellent way to miss details, which is where the devil lives. As unique and stunningly intelligent you are, some of our brains are extremely limited. We cannot multitask,... |
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IGNORE me. by Panna Cotta on October 8th, 2010, 2:30 pm
There comes a point in time when you just take people close to you for granted. They become part of your life, you breathe their existence that sometimes it is hard to distinguish the important role they play in your life. You are sure they will just be there. It will become mechanical and soon you blur them out. Instead of cherishing every moment and putting value in every minute you are together, you just chalk it up to being together in general.
Why does time do this?
Why does time make us realize that we are missing out on the important persons in our life only when the important person is on the verge of disappearing? Do we really have to lose someone before we decide that we should have "spent more time together, talked more together, gave attention and listened to what they were saying more often, more more more". I'm not sure but I think saying "If only I knew I'd lose you I would have done everything to prevent that from happening" is actually very stupid. It speaks a lot of how you handle relationships.
It is like planting a seed, waiting for it to grow, and once it had blossomed you lose the enthusiasm. The rain and the sun and the wind will take care of the plant, it will live on its own and happily grow if left untended. If it dies you say "what did I do wrong?"
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I am crazy.. by Diane on September 19th, 2010, 5:51 pm
Since the latest blog I gained some trust in people,slowly but certain,I thought it was time to say to all of you:readers,friends of mines or not yet..
I really think that people are trustworthy,some of them will hurts us-you,me- ..maybe some of them will not do that.Or will do it without further intention nor hidden motives.One thing I try to figure it out after all the people I met online,and some in real life.Why the real trust isn't the one up front and it's only a "fake/image one" which is put up front to the others?Where is the true trust in a friendship,couple relationship,between family members?Where did it ALL go..?!
I know another thing which is,that trust is gained in time and you shouldn't be trusting all people around you like a blind man o something around there,but the bad news is..I do that.And a Lot.I am crazy,I know..tell me about it.>.>
I just wish the other person/persons will have the same trust I have in him/them and just don't give up on small things and saying thing" I will only hurt you." How can you possibly know that?People change,the time makes us..all of US causing to change no matter what.
Hurting is a process in which we all are spinning and there is no stopping to it..but- I don't wanna go back and not fight with it.I've been through enough painful things/situations and so on,but not this Time.This time I want things right and I am willing to do more than anything in my powers to prove it wrong to the others that..Love and happiness do exist no matter what,only that other don't wanna see as they pretend as if it's not there.. 
I am crazy for trusting people so much?...for growing small feelings for others,for wanting just trust,respect from the Other.Is that So much to ask?
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