for me:
1: To have people wanting to thread with me.
2: Be able to accurately put what I'm seeing in my mind into actual words that make sense when people read them.
3: To know the lore inside out so I can start building more on to it.
for Ciryll:
1: have stalking-related skills so high they even give Morwen the willies.
2: be a person highly renowned within Avanthal, and maybe the world.
3: to have people constantly ask her "how long have you been standing there!?"