I understand that Akalak's are a dwindling race and that reproduction is important for them. In the game I'm not an Akalak I'm an Ethaefal, I lived my life of obligation as an Akalak already then I died. Several lives later I fell from the sky and don't even really know that much about Akalak except they are warriors. If I do go to Riverfall my character isn't going to be openly making out with dudes in front of every body but I know he will not fit in for various other reason other than his sexuality. The fact that I don't fit in is one of the major concepts of an Ethaefal at least I take it that way.
If I was playing a pure blood Akalak I would have handled him differently, If i did make him gay he would probably have uncomfortably awkward sex with a women, make babies and then go back to the dudes. I'm sure discrimination would still be an issue and I face that in real life. which would be the reason why I have trouble differentiating between whether you're talking about your character views or your real life views.
I mostly posted in here because I think Akalaks are cool and happened to pick an Akalak as my mortal seeming. your comment made sense for the game I just wasn't sure if you were talking about Akalaks or if these views applied to real life. its hard to tell through writing some time.